Q. My ex dumped me for someone new...his new girlfriend didn't know anything about us being together while he hooked up with her. The new girlfriend leaves me disrespectful messages on myspace and tells me i don't have shit on her, says shes better then me, i don't have shit and my ex don't want me. She told me he has a Tatto with her name on his arm, then showed me a pic of a Tatto on her back with his name and said they both have matching tatto(confused). She keeps telling me he says he will never come back to me and they are getting married. (My ex is in prison. We were off and on for 2 years. he is 24 and i'm 29 and the new girlfriend is 20 years old). Why does she think i owe her when she was f**king and sucking on my man when i was with him? Why does she thinks she better then me? Why does my ex tell her my business? I don't know anything about her but she knows a lot about me! one of her best friends told me she took a letter my ex wrote his new girl and he didn't ask her how she was doing, didn't say hello nor asked about the baby she was pregnant with (come to kind out she lied about being pregnant her brother told me). They told me she does drugs like he does (they do crystal meth... i don't do them, i go to school). Please tell me why is he doing this to me when he did me wrong? I don't know his new girlfriend he left me for...Why is she so damn disrespectful???
A. Honey your a full grown woman of 29 years old, she is a 20 year old idiot and very very immature. I am from the UK, a mother of grown up children older than you, and a grandmother too of course, and yes that is the real me as I am now in my Yahoo ID along with my answer to you. I am telling you this, not because I think I am an expert on the ways of life and people, true I have lived many years longer than you, but you do gain wisdom as you age, so I am actually hope my word might help you.
The first thing to do is ignore this brat of a female, who I would hazard a guess is telling a whole pack of lies to suit her own means. To me its as clear as the nose on my face, this stupid girl is jealous and feels threatened by you, even though your not with the guy anymore. She says things like he has a matching tattoo etc, keeps telling you all these things he supposedly says to her about his undying love for her now, can't you see for yourself, if you were but a fly on the wallpaper so to speak, and where in the same room with them at any one time (that's why I say think of yourself as a fly on the wall paper for they'd not know you were there then), but if you were in the same room you'd be hearing a whole lot different that this bitch is telling you. I reckon the guy, even though on drugs etc, is getting pretty fed up with her already. I doubt very much if he has said anything bad about you, and because he is not, its making her the insecure one hence she is jealous of you.
Just ignore this stupid female, she is acting and behaving like a 13 year old child, in fact I take that back, kids probably would act a whole lot maturer. I am not surprise she lied about being pregnant, probably told the guy eventually that she miscarried - but she is an out and out liar and a no good person. I am not saying he will go back with you, she is actually terrified of that, and I think by what you say you'd not take him back anyway, but that is a private and personal thing to you, I'd hope you'd not for your own sake, but its not my business, we all have the right to choose what we do in life. But yes you must certainly ignore her. If she starts trying to contact you in person then tell her to go to hell, if she don't then call the police on her.
Ignore her, don't respond on facebook or any other internet thing your both on, don't even mention her to other people on face book either, take that back seat, ignore. Now concentrate on your own life, go out with your girls, have fun, and aim for the things in life that you really want, for you deserve them. Your an individual and your unique and a special person like we all are, minus that awful sounding person your talking about here. Laugh about it to yourself, sure its disrespect to you, but you got the satisfaction this girl is so so jealous and insecure about you. She deserves the pain she's in. Your the one who is free, so come on put on that brave face and smile.
Good Luck
Billie
UK
The first thing to do is ignore this brat of a female, who I would hazard a guess is telling a whole pack of lies to suit her own means. To me its as clear as the nose on my face, this stupid girl is jealous and feels threatened by you, even though your not with the guy anymore. She says things like he has a matching tattoo etc, keeps telling you all these things he supposedly says to her about his undying love for her now, can't you see for yourself, if you were but a fly on the wallpaper so to speak, and where in the same room with them at any one time (that's why I say think of yourself as a fly on the wall paper for they'd not know you were there then), but if you were in the same room you'd be hearing a whole lot different that this bitch is telling you. I reckon the guy, even though on drugs etc, is getting pretty fed up with her already. I doubt very much if he has said anything bad about you, and because he is not, its making her the insecure one hence she is jealous of you.
Just ignore this stupid female, she is acting and behaving like a 13 year old child, in fact I take that back, kids probably would act a whole lot maturer. I am not surprise she lied about being pregnant, probably told the guy eventually that she miscarried - but she is an out and out liar and a no good person. I am not saying he will go back with you, she is actually terrified of that, and I think by what you say you'd not take him back anyway, but that is a private and personal thing to you, I'd hope you'd not for your own sake, but its not my business, we all have the right to choose what we do in life. But yes you must certainly ignore her. If she starts trying to contact you in person then tell her to go to hell, if she don't then call the police on her.
Ignore her, don't respond on facebook or any other internet thing your both on, don't even mention her to other people on face book either, take that back seat, ignore. Now concentrate on your own life, go out with your girls, have fun, and aim for the things in life that you really want, for you deserve them. Your an individual and your unique and a special person like we all are, minus that awful sounding person your talking about here. Laugh about it to yourself, sure its disrespect to you, but you got the satisfaction this girl is so so jealous and insecure about you. She deserves the pain she's in. Your the one who is free, so come on put on that brave face and smile.
Good Luck
Billie
UK
How would a half sleeve tattoo look on me?
Q. I am thinking of getting a half sleeve tattoo.
It is going to be a castle at night and it is going to have like rapunzel hair and he is going to try to animate me as rapunzel with my face but her hair and im going to then draw an outline of a prince and when i meet my "prince" i will fill him in. (i know kinda chessy)
then i want a star's in the night and they repersents the people i care most about so everytime it will be a star for my close family and best friends and then having a colorful shooting star that wil repersent my daughter. I am just afraid because of my tattoo my type of guys won't approach me. Cause i am into the jock type of guys or the long haired blonde country boy. But not like Sk8ter boys. I am 23. I just got a divorce and i am a photographer. (do that tat won't interdere with my job) plus i am nothing like the goth person i honestly have never wore black in my life i am a perky blonde. Wear a very girly style kinda the girl next door look i have been told and people think a tattoo and with my girl next door look would be so cute. so i am kinda confused i really want it but i do want a nice father figure for my child.
So if you saw me on the street with my tat what would you think even though my style is REALLY girly with skirts, dresses,
THANKS SO MUCH �
It is going to be a castle at night and it is going to have like rapunzel hair and he is going to try to animate me as rapunzel with my face but her hair and im going to then draw an outline of a prince and when i meet my "prince" i will fill him in. (i know kinda chessy)
then i want a star's in the night and they repersents the people i care most about so everytime it will be a star for my close family and best friends and then having a colorful shooting star that wil repersent my daughter. I am just afraid because of my tattoo my type of guys won't approach me. Cause i am into the jock type of guys or the long haired blonde country boy. But not like Sk8ter boys. I am 23. I just got a divorce and i am a photographer. (do that tat won't interdere with my job) plus i am nothing like the goth person i honestly have never wore black in my life i am a perky blonde. Wear a very girly style kinda the girl next door look i have been told and people think a tattoo and with my girl next door look would be so cute. so i am kinda confused i really want it but i do want a nice father figure for my child.
So if you saw me on the street with my tat what would you think even though my style is REALLY girly with skirts, dresses,
THANKS SO MUCH �
A. Every guy is different, so it's kind of hard to say what guys will like or not, but I am a country boy so I can speak for the majority of other guys like me. Small town/ farming guys don't like big blocky tattoos on women. It could be a very artistic piece, but any guy will see that and think you have no class. Plus, I am never a fan of getting a boyfriend/girlfriend tattooed on you. You said you're divorced, so you know that there is nothing guaranteeing you two will be together forever. If you were to break up, you're left with their face or name permanently written on your body. I'm sorry if this isn't the answer you were looking for, but it's just my opinion.
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