Minggu, 06 Oktober 2013

Is it tacky to get my fiancé's first letter tattooed on the bottom of my ring finger ?

Q. By bottom, I mean closest to the knuckle but underneath. Thoughts? Also, will a ring rubbing on it etc, damage the tattoo over time?

A. Here's the one and only half-way sensible ring-finger tattoo I've ever heard of:

When a woman who was a surgeon was married, she had a tattoo done on her fourth finger, left hand that depicted a wedding ring. This was because she always had to scrub very thoroughly before an operation, and she would have been required to remove a regular wedding ring and keep track of it somewhere else.

Don't be like the sailor who had a whole string of crossed-out hearts down his arm, each one bearing a different name. (Hope that never needs to happen!)


What would you think of this tattoo on a female? Would you respect it?
Q. You meet someone who is very pretty and you get a good sensual type vibe. She also has 3 kids that do not live with her but with the father and gives you a sob story about it by blaming the father for her losing the kids. Anyway when you guys are getting busy you notice that the tattoo on her lower back on top of her a$$ says, "Enjoy the Ride" with flowers all up on the letters. Would this be a woman that you would keep and respect?
I am not seeing this woman...I just want to know what you would think. This is the mother of my kids that did this and is now out tehre living single life...this was the 1st thing she did when she left...get this tattoo

A. Personally I would say there is a lot more behind the story about this woman. I would not totally judge a woman because of her tattoos for we have all done things in the past and have become to have regretted them down the road, tattoos are not an easy thing to get rid of. I have always said to a person when they are getting a tattoo, do you really think 20 or 30 years down the road will you still want this on your body.
As to her not having custody of her children, well that is for sure another story. It has always been known that the courts will never take children away from the mother unless there is a very good reason, so this tells me she is an unfit mother. Is this what you want for your children if you should happen to get her pregnant. Is she at all trying to still be a mother to those children she has got that are with the husband. If I was you I would be finding out a lot more about her.
Right at the start of your letter you state that she is very pretty, (Well looks are not everything.) In order to have a good relationship you need a lot more than looks.
There is a lot your not saying here but as a man that has been around for a while and reading between the lines of your question I would say you need to be very careful getting involved in this relationship.
I would sure like to know the fathers side of this story for it is never all one persons fault on any break-up.
No matter what, she has had these children and she is a mother and she needs to learn to be a mother to these children. When you have children they become formost first in all future life decisions other wise you should not be having them.
I can go on and on with this but I think you get what I am saying here.
Good Luck

AHHH, I did not see your additional details before I wrote whats above, I thought I was answering a question of a new man getting involved with this woman.
Anyways my feeling are still the same.
Mr I give you credit, I wish you all the luck in the world. Please be a good father to theses children for down the road the rewards are great, they will see who was there for them and riased them. It is her loss. I could go on and call her a lot of bad names for doing as she has done but who am I to be the judge and do that.
Bottom line, those children need you more than anything now. Take good care of them. I feel so bad for the childrens sake to have to go through this kind of shit of family break ups. I went through it myself so I know what I am talking about from a childs perspective after growing up and ended out with out a mother or father.
I wish you all the luck in the world and will be praying for these children and you.
Be a Good father,





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