Q. I am interested in this lifestyle. I dont always feel the best in clothes. People stress modesty so much in this world, and I believe that us human beings should get used to each other's bodies instead of separating or hiding it. Are people with less than perfect bodies, or tattooed people accepted too?
A. You're absolutely right that people put too much emphasis on modesty. Society treats the nude body as something to be embarrassed and ashamed of, while at the same time treating it as a titillating and exciting thing that everyone wants to see (which is why near-nudity and sex appeal is so often used in advertising). It creates a very mixed message that has led to people being nearly dysfunctional when it comes to matters of nudity and body parts. I agree that people should get used to nude bodies (their own and that of others) as something that's perfectly natural and comfortable.
Among the naturist/nudist community, people of all body shapes/styles/forms are accepted no matter how perfect or imperfect they are. I've even read of post-mastectomy women with one breast and a lot of scars being accepted and feeling comfortable among nudists. People with tattoos are also very much accepted; an individual tattoo may not be accepted if it's blatantly offensive, however, but that goes for all of society and not just nudists. What makes a person accepted or not accepted is whether or not he/she is a nice person. A douchebag is a douchebag whether naked or clothed, and someone who is nice and friendly remains that way whether naked or clothed. About the only cosmetic thing that commonly isn't accepted is genital piercings because it draws unnecessary attention to the genitals, but that may be more of a rule of naturist resorts rather than the community overall.
If you feel more comfortable without clothes then by all means, go without clothes as much as possible. When the temperature is warm enough to be comfortable or is just plain hot, clothing serves no logical purpose. Once you feel comfortable enough with nudity, either alone or with your significant other, and you'd like to venture into social nudity, look into naturist resorts or nude beaches in your area where you can get out and meet people who share your interest. Have fun!
Among the naturist/nudist community, people of all body shapes/styles/forms are accepted no matter how perfect or imperfect they are. I've even read of post-mastectomy women with one breast and a lot of scars being accepted and feeling comfortable among nudists. People with tattoos are also very much accepted; an individual tattoo may not be accepted if it's blatantly offensive, however, but that goes for all of society and not just nudists. What makes a person accepted or not accepted is whether or not he/she is a nice person. A douchebag is a douchebag whether naked or clothed, and someone who is nice and friendly remains that way whether naked or clothed. About the only cosmetic thing that commonly isn't accepted is genital piercings because it draws unnecessary attention to the genitals, but that may be more of a rule of naturist resorts rather than the community overall.
If you feel more comfortable without clothes then by all means, go without clothes as much as possible. When the temperature is warm enough to be comfortable or is just plain hot, clothing serves no logical purpose. Once you feel comfortable enough with nudity, either alone or with your significant other, and you'd like to venture into social nudity, look into naturist resorts or nude beaches in your area where you can get out and meet people who share your interest. Have fun!
Do the Valtrex commercials make you as angry as they make me?
Q. They are pretty much saying if you take our medication you can have sex with whoever you want and you wont give them herpes. This really scares me. I dont want a valtrex takin ho to have sex with me and not tell me she has herpes because she thinks she cant give it to me. People with STDs should be forced to get a tattoo above their privates that tells what disease they have so anyone who is about to go down under knows.
A. Obviously you need some education. Herpes affects 1 in 5 men and 1 in 4 women. Chances are if you've slept with 4 people you have been exposed. Approximately 80% of those that have herpes don't know it and the test for herpes is NOT a part of normal std screenings. Many that say they are "clean" are not.
Many of the people that have herpes got them from partners that did NOT disclose. Studies have shown that you are safer with someone that KNOWS they have herpes and takes suppressives, uses condoms and avoids sex during outbreaks than sleeping with the general public. Oh, and make sure you don't have oral sex with anyone that has coldsores because that is Herpes (HSV1) and many of the new cases of genital herpes are coming from oral sex. Just because you don't see a coldsore doesn't mean the other person isn't contagious...there is something called asymptomatic shedding.
The commercial states that it lowers the risk....and before you say much more perhaps you better go and get tested for herpes....you could be part of the 80%.
Many of the people that have herpes got them from partners that did NOT disclose. Studies have shown that you are safer with someone that KNOWS they have herpes and takes suppressives, uses condoms and avoids sex during outbreaks than sleeping with the general public. Oh, and make sure you don't have oral sex with anyone that has coldsores because that is Herpes (HSV1) and many of the new cases of genital herpes are coming from oral sex. Just because you don't see a coldsore doesn't mean the other person isn't contagious...there is something called asymptomatic shedding.
The commercial states that it lowers the risk....and before you say much more perhaps you better go and get tested for herpes....you could be part of the 80%.
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