Senin, 08 Juli 2013

What would you do if your child came home from college with a tattoo?

Q. I am 19 years old and I am going to get a tattoo soon. I really want it to run along my spine starting at my collar line and run down to just below my underwear band. It would be written in hebrew and would be about one inch thick. It would be the bible verse Ephesians 2:8- For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith � and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God � (NIV)

What would you do if your child came home from college with a tattoo?

A. I think the question you really want an answer to is, What will your parents do? People on Yahoo can't answer that question. You can usually get an idea to that answer by feeling your parents out in a conversation. Casually, tell them about a friend, who recently got a tatoo, that you think looks cool and see what they say. Or go with somebody, that you heard is getting a tatoo and tell your parents about the experience, as a passing story. Sort of work it into the conversation smoothly. They will probably ask you if you are thinking about getting a tatoo and you can Say, "maybe, someday, I've thought about it". Their reaction will tell you what they will do, before you actually get the tatoo. Both of my older kids got tatoos. I'm not real happy about their decisions, but I never gave them a hard time about it. The only reason it bothered me, was the fact that they got them in places where it's hard to cover up (forearms for my son and upper back for my daughter). You have to think about your future and how your artwork will look during an interview. Tatoos on the neck, hands and lower arms, aren't the greatest places for professionals to have. For a woman the upper back isn't always the greatest if they have to wear a nice dress for some function. When you are young, you don't usually think of yourself as having a job where you have to look really sharp and professional. Maybe you will never have a job like that, but you should always look your best in a job interview, even if the job doesn't require much contact with the public. It doesn't mean your tatoos will keep you from getting a good job, but why affect your chances when you can get tatoos in so many places. You don't have to break certain lines, such as the collar line or the short sleeve shirt line. These are things that parents think about. My younger son will want one some day. I tell him to wear a short sleeve dress shirt or a nice polo shirt to the tatoo place. When they apply the stencil transfer, you can see if the tatoo will stick out, then you can get it somewhere else. That's all I ask. He understands this. His half brother regrets his tatoo that goes up to the back of his neck. He can tell when he goes to interviews, that people keep looking at it. I'm glad my younger boy understands this fact.


What does getting a tattoo feel like?
Q. I wan to get a tattoo when I'm of age, but I'm scared. I have no clue what it feels like, and no friends or family have tattoos. I might get a white ink one at that. And a black one.

A. We write a daily tattoo blog so we have a ton of information that you could use! Don't know what you want for your first tattoo, we wrote a blog post about that:
"We suggest whatever tattoo you get, make sure its personal and small. What if you don�t like your tattoo? You have to stick with it for almost ever unless you get it removed, which also takes time to get rid of. Get something like an RIP tattoo of someone that was special to you that can remind you every day of how awesome that person was. If not an RIP tattoo, get something small that is noticeable but not something extreme and loud so people won�t make fun of you about it if its a dumb tattoo that was an accident. Getting small tattoos are always a good idea because if you don�t like it, its easier to remove and you it�s not too noticeable. "
Read more here: http://tatopia.com/my-first-tattoo/what-should-my-first-tattoo-be/

Don't know what the pain will be like? Guess what, we wrote multiple articles on that too! We wrote one article called "Do Tattoos Hurt and How Will It Feel? Women Feel Less Pain Then Men?". Being a female is actually a plus because you might feel less pain. The pain will vary by person and how much each person can tolerate it. Also depends on what type of equipment the tattoo artists uses. If they use equipment with fewer needles, then obviously you will feel less pain. Tattoos in areas with softer skin will have more pain then others. Tattoo artists and surveys will show that women tolerate the pain more then men for some reason.
We also attached an image in the blog post that shows the amount of pain each part of the body hurts the most and what hurts the least. So you could look at the image and see what part hurts the least and get a tattoo there!
Read more here: http://tatopia.com/my-first-tattoo/do-tattoos-hurt-and-how-will-it-feel-women-feel-less-pain-then-men/

I will add one more post we added called "Where Should I Put My Tattoo?". You might ask why does it matter where I get the tattoo placed on my body? If you get a tattoo in certain parts of the body it might ruin the tattoo in the long run a few years down the road or it might take longer like 10+ years. It really all depends on where you get it placed on your body and if you take care of it properly. Here is an infograph on a few suggestions on where you should get your tattoo placed on your body. We thought this might be helpful on choosing where you will place your next, or first, tattoo on your body.
We also added an image here that recommends the best place to get your tattoo!
Read more here: http://tatopia.com/my-first-tattoo/where-should-i-put-my-tattoo/

Hopefully this helps you out when your eventually get your first tattoo!





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Where is a good place in Portland Oregon to get a very intricate tattoo done?

Q. I am going to get an alchemical sun on my ankle, but the face will be very antique looking- not cartoony. I am looking for an artist that excels in symmetry and preferabley a woman, but a good tattoo artist is a good tattoo artist and I would accept a man, too. I have been scouring the web, but seek more info. Thanx so very much!!!

A. Mary Jane Haake of Dermigraphics


Is it just me or are more women getting tattoos? Are women the new market for tattoo businesses?
Q. where I come from, many men have tattoos, some for cultural purpose and some just for art. BUT, I notice that the men who keep coming back for more tattoos are running out of space to put them. Are tattoo artist now focusing on marketing on women?

A. These days a lot more women are getting tattooed as there's less social stigma concerning them than there was years ago.
Not so long ago, tattoos were mainly a "male" thing in many countries, and any women who got a tattoo was instantly stereotyped/criticized etc.


There's an interesting article here:
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m2294/is_9-10_50/ai_n6123925





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i am looking for a book any ideas?

Q. the last books iv read were the twilight books and a walk to remember and i really like those types of books romance young adult books does anybody have any good recomendation on those sort of books
thank you

A. I also LOVE the Twilight Series!!!!!!!!!!! Go Edward!!! jk!

Here are some books that I enjoyed:

-I'd Tell You I Love You but Then I'd Have to Kill You by Ally Carter
Cammie Morgan is a student at the Gallagher Academy for Exceptional Young Women, a fairly typical all-girls school???that is, if every school taught advanced martial arts in PE and the latest in chemical warfare in science, and students received extra credit for breaking CIA codes in computer class.& nbsp; The Gallagher Academy might claim to be a school for geniuses but it??'s really a school for spies. & nbsp; & nbsp; Even though Cammie is fluent in fourteen languages and capable of killing a man in seven different ways, she has no idea what to do when she meets an ordinary boy who thinks she??'s an ordinary girl.& nbsp; & nbsp; Sure, she can tap his phone, hack into his computer, or track him through town with the skill of a real ???pavement artist??????but can she maneuver a relationship with someone who can never know the truth about her?& nbsp; Cammie Morgan may be an elite spy-in-training, but in her sophomore year, she??'s on her most dangerous mission???falling in love.

- Cross My Heart and Hope to Spy by Ally Carter (sequel to above)

-The Truth About Forever by Sarah Dessen
Macy's summer stretches before her, carefully planned and outlined. She will spend her days sitting at the library information desk. She will spend her evenings studying for the SATs. Spare time will be used to help her obsessive mother prepare for the big opening of the townhouse section of her luxury development. But Macy's plans don't anticipate a surprising and chaotic job with Wish Catering, a motley crew of new friends, or . . . Wes. Tattooed, artistic, anything-but-expected Wes. He doesn't fit Macy's life at all&150so why does she feel so comfortable with him? So . . . happy? What is it about him that makes her let down her guard and finally talk about how much she misses her father, who died before her eyes the year before? Sarah Dessen delivers a page-turning novel that carries readers on a roller coaster of denial, grief, comfort, and love as we watch a broken but resilient girl pick up the pieces of her life and fit them back together.

-This Lullaby by Sarah Dessen
When it comes to relationships, Remy doesnt mess around. After all, shes learned all there is to know from her mother, whos currently working on husband number five. But theres something about Dexter that seems to defy all of Remys rules. He certainly doesnt "seem" like Mr. Right. For some reason, however, Remy just cant seem to shake him. Could it be that Remys starting to understand what those love songs are all about? From acclaimed author Sarah Dessen, this is a captivating novel about a tough-as-nails girl and the unexpectedly charming boy whos determined to soften her up.

-Pretty much any Sarah Dessen novel is good

-Bass Ackwards and Belly Up by Elizabeth Craft and Sarah Fain
For readers of the New York Times bestselling Gossip Girl and A-List series, here is a smart and highly commercial first novel about four best friends who, after graduating high school, decide to postpone the standard college route to pursue their creative dreams. Harper Waddle, Sophie Bushell, and Kate Foster are about to commit the ultimate suburban sin--bailing on college to each pursue their dreams: write the next Great American Novel, make it as a Hollywood actress, and backpack around the world. Middlebury-bound Becca Winsberg is convinced her friends have gone insane...until they remind her she just might have a dream of her own. So what if their lives are bass ackwards and belly up? They'll always have each other. Harper is going to be the next Jane Austen. Or Sylvia Plath. Or Plum Sykes. Figuring out which should be easy. It?s living with the lie she told her three best friends that?s going to be hard.Kate doesn?t know exactly what she wants. But whatever it is, she won?t find it at Harvard. Maybe the answer is in Paris, or Athens? or anywhere Kate can be someone besides the girl with perfect grades, perfect hair, and the perfect boyfriend.Sophie is a star. She?s already got the looks, the talent, and a list of demands for her dressing room. Now that she?s wrangled a furnished guesthouse in Beverly Hills, it?s only a matter of time before she?s discovered. Unless she isn?t.Becca is dysfunctional. At least, her family is. Which is why she can?t wait to flee the drama and get to college. But Becca?s friends know she needs more than a spot on the Middlebury ski team and a cozy dorm room. They know she needs to fall in love.Dreams are complicated. They almost never turn out like you imagine?they almost always change. Sometimes, they change you.

-Megan Meade's Guide to the McGowan Boys by Kate Brian
When she was nine, Megan Meade met a group of terrible, mean, Popsicle-goo-covered boys, the sons of her father's friend -- the McGowan boys. Now, seven years later, Megan's army doctor parents are shipping off to Korea and Megan is being sent to live with the little monsters, who are older now and quite different than she remembered them.Living in a house with seven boys will give Megan, who has never even been kissed, the perfect opportunity to learn everything there is to know about boys. And she'll send all her notes to her best friend, Tracy, in...Megan Meade's Guide to the McGowan BoysObservation #1: Being an army brat sucks. Except that this is definitely a better alternative to moving to Korea.Observation #2: Forget evil, laughing, little monsters. These guys have been touched by the Abercrombie gods. They are a blur of toned, suntanned perfection.Observation #3: I need a lock on my door. STAT.Observation #4: Three words: six-pack abs.Observation #5: Do not even get me started on the state of the bathroom. I'm thinking of calling in a hazmat team. Seriously. Observation #6: These boys know how to make enemies. Big time.Megan Meade will have to juggle a new school, a new family, a new crush -- on the boy next door, as in next bedroom door -- and a new life. Will she survive the McGowan boys?

Enthusiasm by Polly Shulman
A first-time novelist pens a Jane Austen-inspired romantic comedy of errors as two girls get a part in the boys' school musical. What follows is a series of misinterpreted--and missed--signals, dating mishaps, and awkward incidents.

I hope you enjoy one of these books! Go Twilight!


I have a crush on my former student?
Q. I used to teach her when she was in 8th grade. I was 29 and she was 14. I had NO feelings for her at all. I am not a pedophile. :)
She was one of the best students I've ever had! She liked the same type of music that I did and she was as sarcastic as I was. She also loved tattoos (Like me)
She's transferred from the school I was teaching at when she was in 10th grade.
Right now I'm 36 years old. I was out buying some groceries when I saw this young lady covered in tattoos who looked familiar but I couldn't quite tell who this woman was, so I just forgot about it and continued browsing the aisles. After about 5 minutes this girl comes up to me and says " Excuse me are you Mr.Christopher?"
Right when she started to speak I knew it was my former student! She seemed happy to see me again and we spoke together for about an hour. I had to leave because I had a doctors appointment at the time so she gave me her number to call her so we could catch up.
I found out that shes moved to New York. (We live in Ohio) she was just coming to Ohio to visit her brother. And she's an artist.Which I find pretty cool. She's now 22 years old.
Over the time I've spent talking to her (Six months) I've grown feelings for her. I just think that's a little weird since I was her teacher and all...
I just want to know if it would be inappropriate if I were to ask her out.

A. Do it! I think this story is really cute!





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