Q. I want to get this tattoo on my lower back, in black. Not to big, just like a medium size. And please don't say "If you want to look like a slut" or "TRAMP STAMP!" or anything like that. I want some real opinions please. Or if you have any pictures of tattoos that you think are cooler, or any other ideas, please let me know. Thanks..
here's the picture...
http://tattoodestination.com/Lower-Back-Tattoos.jpg
also, i was thinking like in place of the heart, have like a certain date. like 4.24.04 or like enitials or something
here's the picture...
http://tattoodestination.com/Lower-Back-Tattoos.jpg
also, i was thinking like in place of the heart, have like a certain date. like 4.24.04 or like enitials or something
A. I think that tattoo would look very pretty on your lower back!
here are some other lower back tattoos, hope I helped! :)
http://www.rankmytattoos.com/f/wmimages/lower-back-tribal-tattoo-117555568511992.jpg
http://www.rankmytattoos.com/f/wmimages/lower-back-tattoo-11539689077253.jpg
http://www.lower-back-tattoos.com/image/back-1a.jpg
http://www.gii.in/wallpapers/data/media/97/Lower-Back-Tattoos-6.jpg
http://images.search.yahoo.com/images/view?back=http%3A%2F%2Fimages.search.yahoo.com%2Fsearch%2Fimages%3Fp%3Dlower%2Bback%2Btattoos%26b%3D64%26ni%3D21%26ei%3DUTF-8%26pstart%3D1%26fr%3Dfptb-hptb5-701&w=145&h=81&imgurl=www.cherrycreekflash.com%2Fimages%2Fdesigns%2FGSF-00379%2FGSF-00379_thumb.jpg&rurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.cherrycreekflash.com%2Flower%2520back-tattoos.html&size=11k&name=GSF+00379+thumb+...&p=lower+back+tattoos&oid=bb5a6ef8be733172&fr2=&no=66&tt=9569&b=64&ni=21&sigr=11p1281lq&sigi=1251oo6di&sigb=13g0r24jr
http://offbeatink.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/12/lower-back-tattoo-on-woman.jpg
here are some other lower back tattoos, hope I helped! :)
http://www.rankmytattoos.com/f/wmimages/lower-back-tribal-tattoo-117555568511992.jpg
http://www.rankmytattoos.com/f/wmimages/lower-back-tattoo-11539689077253.jpg
http://www.lower-back-tattoos.com/image/back-1a.jpg
http://www.gii.in/wallpapers/data/media/97/Lower-Back-Tattoos-6.jpg
http://images.search.yahoo.com/images/view?back=http%3A%2F%2Fimages.search.yahoo.com%2Fsearch%2Fimages%3Fp%3Dlower%2Bback%2Btattoos%26b%3D64%26ni%3D21%26ei%3DUTF-8%26pstart%3D1%26fr%3Dfptb-hptb5-701&w=145&h=81&imgurl=www.cherrycreekflash.com%2Fimages%2Fdesigns%2FGSF-00379%2FGSF-00379_thumb.jpg&rurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.cherrycreekflash.com%2Flower%2520back-tattoos.html&size=11k&name=GSF+00379+thumb+...&p=lower+back+tattoos&oid=bb5a6ef8be733172&fr2=&no=66&tt=9569&b=64&ni=21&sigr=11p1281lq&sigi=1251oo6di&sigb=13g0r24jr
http://offbeatink.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/12/lower-back-tattoo-on-woman.jpg
My wife wants to get a tattoo but I don't want her to get one. Is it right to stop her?
Q. Hello,
Here is a little background info first. We have been married for 10 years and have a home and two small kids. My wife currently has one tattoo on her lower back which she got before we met. When we first began dating, I let her know my honest opinion about tattoos. I told her that I didn't like them because I don't like the idea of something permanent on your skin. I am the kind of guy that gets tired of same image. I like to find a really cool wallpaper for my desktop and then change it a week later because I'm bored by it. That's how I feel about tattoos. There is no tattoo that I could ever get, that I wouldn't eventually be bored of and regret. I like tattoos on other people. Sometimes they are cool and interesting and sometimes they are not.
When we first met and had a discussion on this topic, she indicated that she got her tattoo as a sign of freedom. Personally, I think there are better non-permanent ways to express yourself, but she did that before my time so there wasn't much else to say there. She agreed with me that the tattoo was a bad idea and that she did actually regret it. I asked her if she was ever planning to get another tattoo and she said no. I said good because I didn't like them.
About a week ago, I saw that she was printing tattoo pictures and so I asked her about that. She said that her and her female friend were sorta planning on getting a small ankle tattoo together for my wife's birthday. She said she wanted to get it as a last hurrah because she now in her early 40's and is beginning to feel old. She wanted it to mark this time in her life.
I asked her if she didn't think that that was something that would've been discussed by the both of us. She said no because I knew you would just get mad anyway. That's the part that made me really upset. She was willing to get a tattoo behind my back and expected me to just live with it. I explained to her that part of the original agreement of being together depended on her not getting anymore tattoos. She explained that it is her body and that she can do whatever she wants with it. I tried to explain to her that I'm living this life with her too, and since we share this life, we should share that decision.
After thinking about it for a few days, I told her that we probably needed to go our separate ways. I told her that I never wanted to be a controlling type of guy and I know that she never wanted to feel controlled. However, I know that if she were to get that tattoo, I would truly resent her, and things would get ugly anyway. If I prevented her from getting that tattoo, I know she would resent me.
Well, she was devastated to hear me say that. She doesn't want to lose the house and the family we built together. But I really meant it. She can have all the tattoo's she wants, just not with me in the picture.
Is there a right or wrong here?
2 things....
I don't understand why it has to be something permanent like a tattoo. I could buy her a beautiful anklet! I'm a good guy, I'm not the jealous type, and I let her go out with her friends and she let's me go out with mine as well. However, I draw the line on tattoo's. At some point, she said that I could go with them to get it done. It made me feel sick when she said that.
Second thing, if she knew I couldn't stand tattoo's, why did she get with me? I asked her that question and she told me she thought she would never want another tattoo.
The tattoo means a lot more to me than just the superficial reason. It means disrespect. She's known how passionate I have always felt about them.
I know some people are wondering if I am really willing to throw away the last 10 years... isn't it a fair question to ask if SHE is willing to throw away the last years? Out of respect and love for me, she could find an alternate way to express herself.
I don't understand how I'm a jerk for standing up what I believe in. The day I found out she wanted one, I told her that she was probably going through a mid life and asked her to consider alternatives like jewelry etc. She said no. There was no other way but this tattoo. She put me in an incredibly difficult situation. If she has the right to make these changes to her body, then shouldn't I have the right to leave?
Here is a little background info first. We have been married for 10 years and have a home and two small kids. My wife currently has one tattoo on her lower back which she got before we met. When we first began dating, I let her know my honest opinion about tattoos. I told her that I didn't like them because I don't like the idea of something permanent on your skin. I am the kind of guy that gets tired of same image. I like to find a really cool wallpaper for my desktop and then change it a week later because I'm bored by it. That's how I feel about tattoos. There is no tattoo that I could ever get, that I wouldn't eventually be bored of and regret. I like tattoos on other people. Sometimes they are cool and interesting and sometimes they are not.
When we first met and had a discussion on this topic, she indicated that she got her tattoo as a sign of freedom. Personally, I think there are better non-permanent ways to express yourself, but she did that before my time so there wasn't much else to say there. She agreed with me that the tattoo was a bad idea and that she did actually regret it. I asked her if she was ever planning to get another tattoo and she said no. I said good because I didn't like them.
About a week ago, I saw that she was printing tattoo pictures and so I asked her about that. She said that her and her female friend were sorta planning on getting a small ankle tattoo together for my wife's birthday. She said she wanted to get it as a last hurrah because she now in her early 40's and is beginning to feel old. She wanted it to mark this time in her life.
I asked her if she didn't think that that was something that would've been discussed by the both of us. She said no because I knew you would just get mad anyway. That's the part that made me really upset. She was willing to get a tattoo behind my back and expected me to just live with it. I explained to her that part of the original agreement of being together depended on her not getting anymore tattoos. She explained that it is her body and that she can do whatever she wants with it. I tried to explain to her that I'm living this life with her too, and since we share this life, we should share that decision.
After thinking about it for a few days, I told her that we probably needed to go our separate ways. I told her that I never wanted to be a controlling type of guy and I know that she never wanted to feel controlled. However, I know that if she were to get that tattoo, I would truly resent her, and things would get ugly anyway. If I prevented her from getting that tattoo, I know she would resent me.
Well, she was devastated to hear me say that. She doesn't want to lose the house and the family we built together. But I really meant it. She can have all the tattoo's she wants, just not with me in the picture.
Is there a right or wrong here?
2 things....
I don't understand why it has to be something permanent like a tattoo. I could buy her a beautiful anklet! I'm a good guy, I'm not the jealous type, and I let her go out with her friends and she let's me go out with mine as well. However, I draw the line on tattoo's. At some point, she said that I could go with them to get it done. It made me feel sick when she said that.
Second thing, if she knew I couldn't stand tattoo's, why did she get with me? I asked her that question and she told me she thought she would never want another tattoo.
The tattoo means a lot more to me than just the superficial reason. It means disrespect. She's known how passionate I have always felt about them.
I know some people are wondering if I am really willing to throw away the last 10 years... isn't it a fair question to ask if SHE is willing to throw away the last years? Out of respect and love for me, she could find an alternate way to express herself.
I don't understand how I'm a jerk for standing up what I believe in. The day I found out she wanted one, I told her that she was probably going through a mid life and asked her to consider alternatives like jewelry etc. She said no. There was no other way but this tattoo. She put me in an incredibly difficult situation. If she has the right to make these changes to her body, then shouldn't I have the right to leave?
A. HHHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! ALL the problems in this world, and you're worried about your wife's right ot put a small insignificant tattoo on her ankle without the permission and consent from her self appointed lord and master???? WTF is your problem? this is your WIFE, not a side of beef with a sell by date that you purchased at some livestock auction!!!
let her celebrate entering midlife for pete;s sakes! she could have told you she was screwing the sexy 25 yr old male cashier at costco, was the latest porn queen in her secret movie life, she could have told you she was dying of cancer, she could have told you she was having her nipples and clit pierced. but NOOOOOOOOOOOO.... YOU want to bytch over a one inch ink drawing on her ankle!
if YOU are prepared to dump this woman you have shared your life with for 10 yrs, profess to "love" and "respect" over something so small, stupid and trivial, then yes the best thing you can do for her is get the hell out of her life and give her to a REAL MAN who knows the meaning of "Integrity".
now go and get that prince albert ring on your d1ck that you're sorely in need of... because THATS the smallest thing around here.
add: oh for shytes sakes stop being such a sanctimonious pr1ck! "she is disrespecting you" by not obeying your orders???? WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? maybe she SHOULD come home with a bottle of wild turkey under her arm, a bag of weed and a bong, some crack and the hooker down the street, party it up with you until you pass out, then pierce and tattoo every part of your stupid body so you can wake up looking like a patchwork quilt with built in shower rings, seeing you want to be such a frigging drama queen!!!
MAYBE SHE SHOULD CELEBRATE MIDDLE AGE BY FORGETTING ABOUT THE TATTOO, AND TAKING THE TATTOO ARTIST AND HIS BUDDY OUT FOR THE NIGHT INSTEAD... THEN YOU WOULD HAVE REASON TO WHINE
YOU are not the one being given stupid, selfish, borderline iq ultimatums by her for a personal choice about somehting you wihs to do which will affect no one besides yourself, so don't try to pass the buck onto her for something YOU said and a threat YOU made, which is YOUR responsibility. if you can't walk the walk, THEN DON'T TALK THE TALK.
if i was her, i would take you up on it and tell you to go to hell and take off with the tattoo artist, seeing you're so willing to split 50% of all your assets, pay alimony and child support over your control freak "principals".
let her celebrate entering midlife for pete;s sakes! she could have told you she was screwing the sexy 25 yr old male cashier at costco, was the latest porn queen in her secret movie life, she could have told you she was dying of cancer, she could have told you she was having her nipples and clit pierced. but NOOOOOOOOOOOO.... YOU want to bytch over a one inch ink drawing on her ankle!
if YOU are prepared to dump this woman you have shared your life with for 10 yrs, profess to "love" and "respect" over something so small, stupid and trivial, then yes the best thing you can do for her is get the hell out of her life and give her to a REAL MAN who knows the meaning of "Integrity".
now go and get that prince albert ring on your d1ck that you're sorely in need of... because THATS the smallest thing around here.
add: oh for shytes sakes stop being such a sanctimonious pr1ck! "she is disrespecting you" by not obeying your orders???? WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? maybe she SHOULD come home with a bottle of wild turkey under her arm, a bag of weed and a bong, some crack and the hooker down the street, party it up with you until you pass out, then pierce and tattoo every part of your stupid body so you can wake up looking like a patchwork quilt with built in shower rings, seeing you want to be such a frigging drama queen!!!
MAYBE SHE SHOULD CELEBRATE MIDDLE AGE BY FORGETTING ABOUT THE TATTOO, AND TAKING THE TATTOO ARTIST AND HIS BUDDY OUT FOR THE NIGHT INSTEAD... THEN YOU WOULD HAVE REASON TO WHINE
YOU are not the one being given stupid, selfish, borderline iq ultimatums by her for a personal choice about somehting you wihs to do which will affect no one besides yourself, so don't try to pass the buck onto her for something YOU said and a threat YOU made, which is YOUR responsibility. if you can't walk the walk, THEN DON'T TALK THE TALK.
if i was her, i would take you up on it and tell you to go to hell and take off with the tattoo artist, seeing you're so willing to split 50% of all your assets, pay alimony and child support over your control freak "principals".
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