Q. I kind of want to do a memorial tattoo for my mom. Her favorite flower was a rose, her tombstone is rose colored, and there are roses planted in front of it.
But I'm worried it might be a little girly. Maybe I should just do something else that's rose colored? I don't really want to choose something from a book because I think it's a little impersonal, so I'm not sure what to do. What do you think?
But I'm worried it might be a little girly. Maybe I should just do something else that's rose colored? I don't really want to choose something from a book because I think it's a little impersonal, so I'm not sure what to do. What do you think?
A. Sorry for the loss of your mother. Take your time, when in grief it's hard to think clearly, don't feel compelled to rush your decision in getting a tattoo.
Did you know the most common tattoo put on by BOTH men & women in the world is the rose? So no I don't think its too "girly." Much will depend on style, colors, size & placement of the design. Too much color tends to look feminine on a guy.
To get the best tattoo-- set up appointments with very experienced artists, at least 3 different ones, for consultations. Make it clear you will pay for their time. Give them what ideas & pictures you are thinking of & then let them come up with design ideas for you.
Once you find an artist you like & their design, move forward. If you are indecisive then hold off for a while & find other ways to honor your mom's memory. Good luck in your research!
Did you know the most common tattoo put on by BOTH men & women in the world is the rose? So no I don't think its too "girly." Much will depend on style, colors, size & placement of the design. Too much color tends to look feminine on a guy.
To get the best tattoo-- set up appointments with very experienced artists, at least 3 different ones, for consultations. Make it clear you will pay for their time. Give them what ideas & pictures you are thinking of & then let them come up with design ideas for you.
Once you find an artist you like & their design, move forward. If you are indecisive then hold off for a while & find other ways to honor your mom's memory. Good luck in your research!
Do feminists have more substantive conversations than regular women?
Q. I was trying to eat lunch at work. However, these cackling women were talking to each other about nothing, and they got louder and louder, shrieking and laughing like hyenas. It was unreal. I had to leave.
At that point, I thought that maybe feminists have more serious conversations in a normal tone of voice? The subject matter might be heavy, but I could tolerate that if they are just droning on and not mindlessly making noise.
At that point, I thought that maybe feminists have more serious conversations in a normal tone of voice? The subject matter might be heavy, but I could tolerate that if they are just droning on and not mindlessly making noise.
A. I don't know if they do or not, but I can tell you I'm not the type to purposefully draw attention to myself in the ways you just mentioned. I have a friend who is like that, though...and it's embarrassing (often!) to be out in public with her. Especially if she has any alcohol in her...look out! She's showing everyone the tattoo on her breast, talking loud enough for the dead to hear, laughing like a hyena, etc...she's a great friend, and fun to be with, but let me tell ya, there have been moments when she's made me want to melt right into the floor. One time, we went out on my birthday and had a bit to drink at one of the local taverns...it was karaoke night. She got a bit "tipsy" and decided to sing me a song. She called everyone's attention to the fact that it was my birthday (embarrassing enough for me), and then drunkenly (and loudly) sang the song dedicated to me: It was Bette Midler's "The Rose".... I've never wanted to disappear so badly in all my life...lol!
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